Have you ever been asked a question that completely caught you off guard? A question that made you pause and reflect on who you are and what truly matters to you? I recently found myself in such a situation at an Amazon networking event during Afrotech, where a simple question from a man named Brandon (aka Magic) led me on a profound journey of self-discovery. In this blog post, I will share my personal experience and delve into the concept of how our consumption shapes us as individuals.

The Unexpected Question

As I mingled with professionals at the event, Brandon’s first question to me was, “What topic could you talk about for 5 hours?” This seemingly innocent inquiry left me momentarily speechless. I realized that I value building intentional professional relationships, and my answer should reflect who I am while revealing what consumes my thoughts the most.

The Power of Intentional Consumption

In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to overlook the impact of what we consume. Whether it’s the media we engage with, the conversations we have, or the books we read, our consumption shapes our beliefs, values, and even our behavior. As humans, we often mimic what we consume the most, similar to how babies imitate their parents’ words or actions.

Reflecting on Personal Consumption

To answer Brandon’s question, I chose to focus on my faith and relationship with God. However, this led me on a week-long journey of self-reflection. I began contemplating how much time I spend consuming various topics, things, or people. What do I surround myself with? How does it influence my thoughts and actions? These questions became the catalyst for a deeper understanding of myself.

The Mirror Effect

Just as a mirror reflects our physical appearance, our consumption mirrors our inner selves. If we constantly expose ourselves to negativity, it becomes difficult to cultivate a positive mindset. On the other hand, when we immerse ourselves in uplifting and inspiring content, it becomes easier to embody those qualities in our own lives.

Choosing Our Consumption Wisely

Recognizing the power of consumption allows us to make intentional choices about what we expose ourselves to. We can actively seek out knowledge, ideas, and experiences that align with our values and aspirations. By doing so, we create a positive feedback loop where our consumption reinforces the person we aspire to be.


The question that initially stumped me at the Amazon networking event turned out to be a catalyst for profound self-reflection. It reminded me of the power of consumption in shaping who we are as individuals. As we navigate through life, let us be mindful of what we consume and choose wisely. By doing so, we can align our thoughts, actions, and values with the person we aspire to become.

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